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Sending hugs your way Sam. Suicide is tough, but it's even tougher when it's someone you know.

I think the media not being able to publish suicide is doing all the suicide prevention measures a disservice. People genuinely don't realise how often it happens. We see the numbers but we don't see the daily report or the families that are affected.

I really like that you mention the tick boxes and appearing to turn a corner. I think often in life we move through the motions and tick boxes and do the things that we are told we should do to help us feel better when deep down it's not working but what happens if you tell someone that what's supposed to work isn't working? We are all different and there is no one size fits all approach to anything. But I think sometimes we end up feeling like if it worked for all these people, it should work for me, so I'm not going to speak up that it's not or we make excuses and say maybe I just need more time? Maybe more time is needed or maybe another intervention needs to be tried? Or maybe we just need to sit in these deep feelings in the company of someone so we feel less alone?

I think nothing hurts more than knowing that people were struggling in silence. <3 <3 We will always be left wondering if we could have done more. x

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